Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Someone you can count on...

Knowing there is another human being you can trust completely. Realizing that someone else wants the best for you too. Providing a peace full environment where the you can be relaxed and feel safe. If you feel that way then you have got what you have been looking for "A True Friend".
In my case I am blessed with not just one but two person who I can count on, who I can call my "True Friends".
You know after searching all over the world, once in a great while, we meet someone who turns out to be an especially good friend(s) and stands out above all the rest like my true friends:). My friends are like my kenzoku(Japanese word which translated literally means "family.").

Now the only question that you guys would be thinking right now that what defines a true friendship, well let me tell you about them.
Based on my opinion there are only three things that defines a "True Friend".
1) A true friend should be commitment to your happiness, someone is willing to put your happiness before your friendship. True friend should not lack the mercy to correct you when you're wrong.

2) A true friend shouldn't compromise your principles in the name of your friendship.

3) A true friend should be good influence on you.

These are the things that defines a True Friendship and I am very blessed to have friends who have these qualities.

So do you have a best friend who means the world to you? If so, then you should not let another day go by without letting them know how much you care :).


Dedicated to all my friends specially Adella and Joni :)

Monday, March 5, 2012

What is love???


What is love? 
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, and is your voice caught within your chest, then it isn't love, it's like. 
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right? .. it isn't love, it's lust. 
Are you proud, and eager to show them off? .. it isn't love, it's pride.
Do you want them because you know they're there? .. it isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants? .. it isn't love, it's loyalty. 
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand? .. it isn't love, it's low confidence. 
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them? .. it isn't love, it's pity. 
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat? .. it isn't love, it's infatuation. 
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them? .. it isn't love, it's friendship. 
Do you tell them every day that they are the only one you think of? .. it isn't love, it's a lie. 
Are you willing to give all your favorite things for their sake? it isn't love .. it's charity. 

Now you are thinking what is love really mean, let me tell you this...
Does your heart ache and break when their sad? .. then it's love. 
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong? .. then it's love. 
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts? .. then it's love. 
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there? .. then it's love. 
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are? .. then it's love. 
Are you attracted to others, but stay faithful without regret? .. then it's love.

Love is when you sit beside someone, doing nothing, Yet you feel perfectly...happy!!!